How to Attract a Woman

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If you really want to know how to attract a woman, you will have to prepare for a few major changes in your life, especially self-confidence and your body language around women.  These are particularly needed because I’m sure your target is an attractive woman, probably with high social status, and with tons of other men trying to hit on her. This kind of woman can easily make you nervous by just being around her and if she senses your nervousness, your chance to get her will get blown away instantly.

Self confidence is the basis and it will be hard to go any further without that; also note that faking it won’t work either because women somehow have special intuition to recognize men who are trying to fake it.The best way to do it is understanding their way of thinking. I highly recommend that you check out a dating guide for men that created by a woman about understanding and building attraction with her gender at:

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Of course, the question “how to attract a woman” can’t be answered with self confidence alone; here are a few things you should pay attention to:

1. Do not let her make all the decisions; “wherever you want to go” or “whatever you want to do” won’t work here. If you are one of the phlegmatic type who always let other people decide something for you, it is time to change that habit. So when you call her up, tell her where you want to take her, what time you’ll pick her up, what to do there, and so on; this will allow her to enjoy being with you without worrying about every little details.

By deciding everything by yourself and never seek for her approval, you perceive yourself as the man in control and she will look at you as the man with higher social status (which women always seek in a man). At some point, you may even find that she’ll seek for your approval instead, which is a good development.

2. Do not bother her with your issues; when you’re talking with her, refrain from complaining about your problem to her; that including problems at works, your relationship issues, family problems, etc. In fact, you have to be the man who has no problems at all because you’ve solved it on your own like a real man would do.

I know a man who are trying to “open his heart” by telling a woman his deepest troubles; hope that she will do the same, and they will get closer as they know each other secrets. If you already know how to attract a woman, you will never do this. This kind of approach will only make her perceive him as momma’s boy who can’t take care his own problem. On the other hand, she can complain about anything to you; that is her privilege as a woman you approach.

3. Keep teasing and mess with her; I know some of you have raised to be a “true gentleman” who treat a woman with respect and give her this “polite smile” all the time you with her. While pull out her chair or open doors for her is okay, being overly serious all the time can really kill the mood of the interaction.

When you keep “normal conversation” all the time, she’ll be bored in no time, so what you want to do is suddenly mess with her or teases her in various different ways. You can give an exaggerated compliment with overly serious face, hand her something but keep it beyond her reach, and so on. If you are not sure about how far you can go with physical contact, touching the outside of her arm is okay. It is not intimate enough place for the touch to feel strange, but it will give you a good start for another follow up.

Focus on teasing her while there are other females around also gives a clear sign that you’re interested to become “more than friend” with her. This is important if you want to know how to attract a woman: perceive yourself as potential “special friend” from the start, not just another “guy friends”.

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4. Don’t be needy; yes, you’re attracted to her and you want her on your bed, but keep texting or calling her will only make her freaks out. She’ll think that a) you REALLY want her, thus she’ll play hard-to-get and b) you don’t have a life or something better to do than keep chasing her tail around. This is a common mistake that most of guys who don’t know how to attract a woman usually do.

Either way, both scenarios will make you suffer. So here is what you should do: find hobbies, business goals, or other thing that you can focus on and make that your main focus in life. Don’t bother with phone call that won’t come or text message that is not replied. Women like men who have happy life even without them instead the “I can’t live without you” type. So when you have left a message once, it’s her turn to reply and don’t bother to text again.

5. Keep your humor controlled; being humorous and teasing her are the way to make her enjoy her time with you, but you don’t want to be seems as goofy or dorky. Balance things up; sometimes being playful and nice, sometimes being serious and mean; keep her guessing is part of the excitement that keep a relationship alive. Also, be unpredictable and mysterious; call her when she didn’t expect you to, bring her to a place without telling her first, and refrain from telling her your entire life.

Many men want to know how to attract a woman they like for years or maybe even for life. They don’t want “mediocre” women but too scared to ask attractive women out; some others have tried and fail miserably. You don’t have to be in this situation as you can learn and practice to be better in attracting women. Just remember that there is no quick fix; you’ll bound to fail several times as it is part of the learning process, but keep practicing and you’ll get better in no time.