10 Alpha Male Characteristics – Do These And You’ll Become One
In the fierce world of dating, some men can easily catch the attention of any girl, while others are left lingering shyly in the shadows. These powerful men have alpha male characteristics, traits that distinguish them from the rest of the pack. Men with these characteristics almost always emerge victorious not only with the ladies, but also in their careers, sports, and life in general. Do you have what it takes to be an alpha male?
1. Never explains anything to anyone.
This is because among the alpha male characteristics, this one show just how an alpha male does not care about what anyone thinks. Too much thinking of what people around you think of you will only resulted in pitiful attempts to impress everyone and end up making a fool of yourself.
2. Has his own reality.
He isn’t surprised by what’s happening around him. He is calm, composed and never loses poise. When you aren’t gaping at everything around you, you place yourself at high social value; something most girls looking on a man.
3. Takes his sweet time talking.
Guys with low self-esteem talk too fast because they are worried the listener would get bored and walk away. Alpha males talk slowly because they know people won’t go anywhere while they’re talking. Talk slowly also help you to convey your self-confidence. Only a guy with minimum self confidence talk fast since he’s afraid the other party will get bored of him.
4. Hold activities and conversations down.
For some reason in an activity done by a group, there’s always an awkward moment when everyone turns to the alpha male and waits for him to decide. Similarly, in a conversation, people want to laugh but will only laugh if the alpha male finds the joke funny. Make decision for others. That is the real trait of a leader of the pack. Don’t make it sounds like an order though; just a mild suggestion in the right time. Start with “I propose ….” or “I suggest … and lets try … if it doesn’t work”.
5. Is never impressed.
If you try to win his approval, he will look bored and turn away. Whether you’re impressed or not, try to keep calm and composed expression. Having perceived as someone who aren’t easily impressed, the others (including girls) will be encouraged to win your approval.
6. Has limited contact with beta guys
He hangs out only with guys like him. Period. That’s why jocks hang with jocks, not scientists. This isn’t leaving your friend behind since he can’t keep up with you. Rather, the more you get into this “alpha-male” business, the more you get close to another guy who gives the same “vibes”. And it isn’t just about attracting girls; being alpha male also change how you see the world, your job, and your life.
7. Has a sarcastic and twisted sense of humor
They don’t like making friends because they’ll only be friends with Alpha males like themselves. If you attempt to get to know them, they will respond to your questions with something ridiculous to put you off. Usually, this approach is used because they just can’t bear with how beta guys handling their attitude (and life). When you’re trying to pick up girls and your friend keep trying to convince you that the girls are “out of reach”, you know you have the wrong partner for the hunt.
8. Doesn’t care.
He doesn’t care about the little stuff that other people sweat about. If you break down and cry in front of him, he will look at you and step in the other direction. Most of the time, he do that because he hates people who give up and groveling instead trying to overcome their problems. He will help if you ask, but if you come to him pitying yourself and expect him to pat your shoulder and say it’s someone else’s fault, be prepared to be ignored or left behind.
9. Gets recognition all the time.
It’s funny how an alpha male who does very little gets praised a lot. He isn’t seeking any recognition, but people want to recognize him in order to win his affection. Well, this is mainly because all the traits above: he make decisions for others (which make him recognized as the leader of the pack) and never impressed.
10. Is comfortable in his own skin.
Among all other alpha male characteristics, this has got to be the most obvious. Alpha males know they look good and don’t bother spending time looking in the mirror. They smile confidently and know how to make their eyes do the talking. They are comfortable wearing anything, but always dress their best. They will take their top off casually without worrying what others will say.
All those traits aren’t born-gifts; rather, a guy gets all that by educating himself to feel and behave so he can respect himself and get other people to do the same towards him. If anyone can teach you to do that, John Alexander can.