How to Approach Girls
Many guys don’t understand how to approach girls properly; most of them read and study numerous lines and try to disguise their true intent by using these lines. While you surely need something nice to say to open a conversation, DO NOT even try to cover your true intention.
Maybe some girls with mediocre looks will believe that you merely approach her to ask where did she bought her cute earring/necklace/dress and you want to buy one like that for your sister, but an attractive girl who get approached on daily basis by guys who interested in her will immediately realize your true intention.
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Attractive girls are approached by guys all days as long as they are in a public place and they get compliments all the time. This is understandable since on a first sight, guys immediately value a girl based on her face or body, so most of them will follow their instinct and compliment her face or body. Don’t do this; beside it will put you in “just like the other lame guys” category, you immediately putting yourself on lower social status than her.
What you should do is forget about disguise your true intention, but at the same time do not walk to her and throw lame compliment immediately. A simple “Hi” is enough for opener; she may answer with her own “hi”, then you can continue with “is this seat empty?” (while pointing at the seat beside her) or compliment on something unique about her. Avoid compliment her face or body, but you can compliment her accessories, dress, shoes, hairstyle, etc. If you meet her at her workplace, you can start with something like “long day?” and such.
You’ll never be an expert on how to approach girls if you don’t know how select your target and reduce your failure approach rate. The method is really simple: lock your eyes on hers (it doesn’t matter if she is still not looking at you). At some point, you’ll have eye contact with her; at that time, SMILE; remember to keep it a friendly and polite smile. If she smiles back, it is a good sign; if she immediately detach the eye contact and look somewhere else, go find someone else.
When you’ve already had “green light” (she’s smiling back), walk toward her and make sure she sees you doing that. Do not suddenly pop out at her back, she will freak out and you will immediately fall to “stalker” category. When you’ve arrived (make sure she’s not busy at the moment or engage in a conversation with someone else), maintain eye contact and make sure your body language shows that you are confident and convenient being close to her.
Truth to be told, many guys that have asked me “how to approach girls” have this problem. They push themselves to walk closer, but lose confident and being totally nervous around her. Usually, the signs of this lack of confidence are looking somewhere else while talking, wrong positioning (she doesn’t even know that you already beside her), and having hard time to say anything right.
I can’t really say there is anything that can fix that instantly, you must have the “I’m not below her” mindset and get rid of “she’s out of my league” mindset; the rest is practice again and again. You’ll be inevitably get unpleasant reactions sometimes, but if you have done the “eye-locking and smile” first, it is very unlikely for you to get really harsh reaction.
If you want to learn how to approach girls, master the key: self confidence. Start by convincing yourself that you are not beneath her and try to maintain eye contact as you’re talking to her. It maybe difficult at first, but over time, you’ll get used to it.
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