How to Ask Out a Girl – Take Her Out for A Date

At a point in our life, most of us must have wondered how to ask out a girl  on a date. When you’ve known a girl and decide to step to the next level of relationship with her, asking her out suddenly become a really important matter. You really want that “yes” answer that you start thinking about all sort of things to make sure you get it: location, timing, lines, and so on. This is where you (and most of us) messed up.

Before asking a girl out, make sure she has at least a little bit of interest with you. Usually the easiest way to read the sign is through her body language such as eye contact, facial expression, or light physical contact (hitting you playfully and such). If she is being mysterious and you can’t decide her feeling to you, just do it; there are some things that you’ll never know unless you try.

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Actually, this is how to ask out a girl on a date: ask her directly. Asking her directly is the best approach and by being straightforward, she’ll respect you for your confidence. Of course, this doesn’t mean that she will surely accept your invitation, but at the very least you’ll gain her respect.

Like I said above, if you still confused about how to ask out a girl on a date, suddenly you feel that things like timing, location, etc become vital factor that can decide the outcome. While they do have some influences, you shouldn’t let it stressed you out. If you find it difficult to talk one on one with her, don’t wait for the opportunity that may never comes; make sure she isn’t busy at the moment and just said “can I talk with you for a sec?” and bring her away from the crowd.

Skip the formalities, forget the compliment; say what you want to say IMMEDIATELY. Prolong it will only make you more nervous and while you beating around the bush, she may say “I have to going back to my work/friends/families and you lose your chance.  Just say something like “Hey, I’m going to [movies/beach/party/club] [tomorrow/later/next Saturday]. You should come too, it’ll be fun” or “would you like to go out with me this weekend?” (more direct approach). Keep eye contact with her and show your confidence through your body language: stand upright and DO NOT let your hand plays anything, including your hair, cell phone, keys, or anything else.

Sometimes she’ll try to tease you by saying “are you asking me for a date?” or “as in a date?”; if this happen, immediately say “yes” instead of trying to make excuses to safe your face. Girls like a guy who can back up his words rather than a guy who immediately making excuses to safe their little pride. If she accepts, learn about how to treat her in how to date a girl.

The last thing on how to ask out a girl on a date: be prepared for rejection. No matter how good you preparing yourself and identifying yourself beforehand, some things are not meant for you to have and you must learn to accept it like a man. Say “alright” and keep treating her as usual instead being offended or taking it personally. Act like a man, not like a boy; remember that there are vast world out there and you’ll bound to meet someone special sooner or later.

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