How to Become Alpha Male

From time to time, you’ll notice that there are guys that have “special charms” with women. They pick up women easily and snatch other guys target without dropping a sweat. They attract women by just being present at the moment. These guys are the alpha male and what they capable of are not gifts, it is skill that they learned through hard experiences. You can also learn how to become alpha male if you know the rules.

If you want to learn how to become alpha male, here is the first rule: leave beta male characteristic that may have implanted in you since you were a boy. I’m talking about most of the male’s way of thinking currently; they want the most attractive girl they’ve seen but lack confidence to put themselves on the same level as her.

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The “you’re so beautiful with so many men after you and I’m below you” concept is the reason why beta male only get leftover women. If you approaching a woman and everything that you do (how you speak, your body language, and how you treat her) reflect that concept, she’ll immediately looks you as inferior and rejects you. In this case, the best thing that you can get is being his closest ‘guy friend’. She’ll talks to you about all her troubles but won’t let you go beyond that.

Then, many guys that don’t know how to become alpha male will resort to another common tactic: buying her approval with money. A bucket of flowers, luxury dinner, being her chauffeur and drive her everywhere, buy her ring, clothes, bags, etc.  These things tend to backfire on you; she’ll think that you’re being manipulative and trying to buy or impress her with money.

Remember this: DO NOT buy a woman anything expensive unless she has done something to deserve it. Picture yourself as an alpha male where you don’t seek for her approval, but already have a fun life where it is her loss if she doesn’t want to be a part of it.

The second rule on how to become alpha male is never let yourself fall to the “boring guy” category. Yes, you maybe enjoy trading stocks, but there is no point talking about how the latest policy affects your stocks in. Safe those for your guy friend or you’ll end up being one of the guys who is talking by himself while his girlfriend chatting with someone else with her cell phone.

Having passion is good and actually women like a guy who has “life” and passion for his job and expertise. However, women need excitement in the conversation; talk about your passion but leave out all the logical explanation and start involves her in the conversation by asking her opinion on various things.

While we are at this topic, let me remind you another way on how to become alpha male by keeps her excited: NEVER ask for her permission in case of physical contact. Yes, don’t ask “may I kiss you” or “lest have sex”. It will kill the mood instantly; PERIOD.

By ask her the question, you put her in a difficult situation; if she says “yes”, she afraid that she will be seen as a slut, so it is “safer” to say “no”. What you should do is read her body language, identify it, and go for the kill when the time is right; that including kissing, touching, and sex. For more detailed course on how to become alpha male, learn the secrets of a pickup artist, John Alexander, in his book How to Become an Alpha Male.

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