How to Date Women – Keep the Flame Burning
If you already at the stage where you are thinking about how to date women, I assume you already have a woman in mind and both of you may have gone on several dates already. During this stage, you have the opportunity to show her that you’re an independent and fun man to be with and make her want to be a part of your life. By “independent” and “fun” I’m not saying that you should faking it and trying to impress her with exaggerating attitude or throwing money on everything she pointed at.
By “independent”, I mean that you should stop asking for her approval on everything such as “funny isn’t it?” or “did you have fun?”; be confident on yourself and lead the way. Become a man who can solve his own problem, don’t complaining about your problem in front of her and perceive yourself as a man she can count on.
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Also, DO NOT trying to impress her with money. Some guys will immediately draw their credit card when they see the woman they like point on something in a shopping mall. But when you’re trying to buy a woman’s heart with money, you’ll get money spender woman and it will lead to further problems in the future. Furthermore, she may ditch you immediately if you’ve gone bankrupt or get fired from your luxurious job.
By “fun”, I’m not saying that you should remembering 101 jokes and humors. Jokes and humors will flow naturally from anyone who already knows how to date women properly. Just be playful, tease her, mess with her, and keep flirting. Focus the conversation on her opinion and avoid “yes-no” question like a plague. Try to throw one or two imaginary question such as “if you can choose where to live, where would that be?” to learn about her character and how she sees live. Keep build attraction and emotional connection with her by talking about her passion and interest. Also make her know you a bit better by talking about your interest and seek for common traits between you two.
Even with “I’m fun to be with” attitude, your date will going nowhere if you can’t create the “spark of chemistry”. Don’t expect your woman to do this; you as the man must lead and make the date keep interesting and fun. Try to make more physical contact like holding hands, putting your arm around her waist, or kissing her cheek. If she’s comfortable with your touch, you may be able to go further on the next date (or even later at the night). Just read the sign from her attitude and reactions.
You don’t really need to be an expert on how to date women to please your woman. Just make sure she has fun during her time with you and keep moving to the next level. Making her laugh is not enough; you’ll need to be involved deeper with her, both emotionally and physically. Basically, you’ll want people that looked at both of you thinking “he is dating her” rather than “they’re just friends having fun together”. If both of you don’t seem to be involved in a romantic relationship, you may even have other guy hit her in front of you; this can really happen, especially in a club where guys are coming for the sole purpose to hit on hot girls. Just make sure this won’t happen to you.
Discover What You Should Do and Should Not Do in Your Date
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This guide also covers all other aspects in dating (including self confidence and approaching) by divide them in 3 parts: beginner, intermediate, and advanced. |