How to Get My Girlfriend Back
Note: this is the second page of the article. Read the first page about how to react when you sense the breakup is coming at How to Win Back Your Girlfriend.
In the previous page, we already know that if you don’t want to get rejected by her and end up thinking the hard question “how to get my girlfriend back” day and night, remember this iron rule: never become needy and clingy by stalking her or check her out 30 times in a day. The first thing to do is being on her side by agreeing with her.
It is easier if you’ve seen this coming and prepared for it, but if you already have a breakup and already did all that “desperate moves” (text messaging terrorism, calling her day and night, and so on), you’ll need to do something to fix your image in her eyes.
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Keep thinking “how to get my girlfriend back” won’t help; you need to take a REAL action to make something happen. From the statement above, you already know the first move: agreeing with her, so do that; but this time don’t come to her house or workplace as she will send her friend to chase you out. Also don’t send text message as she will treats it like your other messages and delete it immediately. Obviously, do not call her phone since she won’t answer. Heck, she maybe even has blacklisted your number.
Send something unusual that will catch her attention since you really need your message get through her. Send her a hand written letter; this should be enough to get her attention and make her read it. Inside the letter, you should write that you’ve been acting crazy and lost your mind because of the breakup. Tell her that you have cooled down now, you also have think things over and you agree that a breakup is the best thing for both of you now. Place yourself on her side by agreeing with her decision.
You may think “Alan, you are not teaching me how to get my girlfriend back. You practically tell me to give her up to someone else!” No I don’t, by agreeing with her she’ll accept you being around her again. You’ll come and communicate with her as a friend and that is a really good start.
From there, you’ll want to reinvent yourself by turn yourself into the person that she was in love with. This is especially necessary if the breakup was happened because of your bad behaviors. You’ll need to change your attitude, behaviors, and even perhaps your lifestyle. This is not an easy step; that is why you should really consider whether the relationship is worth to be saved or not before making any move.
Once you clear your image and establish yourself as a man that she can trust and love (once again), it is time to move deeper. Get closer, try to ask her out on a date with you again. In this stage, it is all about pace; you don’t want to move too fast and freak her out. After all, she broke up with you and she’ll need time to consider having you back in her life.
After you went all the trouble to get back with your ex girlfriend, do not let yourself back to the same situation once again: being depressed and ask around questions like “do you know how to get my girlfriend back?” DO NOT let the same problem caused another breakup. At this point, appreciate your own effort and focus to maintain healthy relationship with her. Differences will keep exist as you both are different individual, but this time, learn to deal with it properly. You’ve tried hard to gain her and gain your happiness, so make sure it last long enough, preferably for life.
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