How to Pick Up Girls – Approaching and Realistic Expectation

If you want to learn how to pick up girls with high success rate, there are some tips that you can apply immediately that will made you slightly ahead all the other guys in the area. I’m going to assume that you’ll try to pick up girls in a club as that is the easiest place to find packs of hot chicks; the competition will be hard, but the prize is worth it. I’m also going to assume that you’ll only look for one night stand. Here are a couple of things that you can do:

1. Come one or two hours before closing time. This is not necessarily essential, but if you are new on the game, it is always helpful to play in a stage where there are not too many competitors left. At this hour, you’ll notice that many hot guys have left and the leftover hot chicks who don’t want to spend the rest of the night alone at her couch in front of infomercial will be slightly desperate to find someone.

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2. Don’t stay at your corner while keep scanning the room for target; you’ll looked creepy. Instead, be involved with activities; chat, dance, and so on. Even if you come alone, there are many friendly guys and girls that you can talk to casually, especially the bartender. Be friendly. During this time, also look for eye contact and note potential targets for later.

3. Eye contact should be used to determine what she thinks about you. If you get slight smile or flirting look, it is a good sign, but if she immediately look away when your eyes meet hers, then forget about her. If you already have positive eye contact several times, it will be easier to open a conversation later.

4. You’ll never know how to pick up girls if you won’t take action. Identify your target, study her for a few minutes; if she is in a group with some guys in it, determine whether she has romantic relationship with one of the guys or not. If she’s clear, make your move.

Note: do not wait for her at the toilet, bar, or other occasion when she detach from her group. You may have to wait for all night and the result may not be worth it. Remember, you CHOOSE to approach her, not the other way around, so stand up and walk toward her. If large group seems too overwhelming, pick a girl with no more than three friends with her.

Do not approach from her back or other blind spot; you’ll not be appreciated if you suddenly pop out behind her, she may even freak out and ask one of her guy friends to get you away from her. Make sure she can see you when you approach, walk steadily, smile, and have confidence.

5. You can either focus on the guys in the group (seek for allies), talk to one of your target’s female friends, or talk to her directly when you’ve arrived. There are a lot of opener that you can use here, be slightly funny can really help. Just remember that if your target extremely gorgeous, do not compliment her immediately; she already have that the whole night.

DO NOT expect it to be smooth all the time; 5 of 10 girls may reject you (yes, usually they are the hottest chicks with the shortest skirt) and it may not even your fault (bad day, alpha male around, etc). Just be a man and leave with dignity; you won’t win a fight if you scared of a few bruises. Many guys that ask me “how to pick up girls” back off after hearing this. Retain your precious ego or jump to the battlefield, get some bruises, and seize the prize. Your choice.

6. If you made it this far, your job now is be perceived as a fun guy to spend the night with. Throw jokes in your conversation (not too much though), stay mysterious, and focus the conversation on her. The tricks is avoid yes-no question and focus on her opinion; ask her something like “how is your day?” or “if you can choose where to live, where would that be?”. Basically something that can make the conversation flow and not boring.

During conversation, it is important to create “sparks” by keep flirting and teasing her; this will make her see you as a man with higher social status and that you’re not just another potential guy friends.

7. Isolate her from the group and make you her only focus. You can do this by positioning yourself so you can have solo conversation or ask her friends if you can “borrow” her for a while.

For more detailed explanation on what you should do once you initiate conversation, read how to pick up a girl.

The knowledge on how to pick up girls is not something that can be learned only by reading some books or practicing in front of a mirror. You just need to go out and do it. You’ll get rejection and probably even humiliated, but nothing can be gained by holding to your ego. At the end of the night, the winner with bruises gets a wild night and the loser who was too afraid to make moves get nothing.

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