Online Dating for Men – Creating Attractive Profile Pictures and Interest Box

While some men have spare time to hang out, partying, going to club, or joining various social activities to meet women, there are others that don’t have that luxury. It maybe because of long working hour, single parent who have to take care of his kids, or various other reasons that make them unable to meet eligible women. With this condition, it is not surprising that online dating for men is really popular.

Undoubtedly, the most important thing in online dating for men (and women) is how you create your profile. In the world where you can’t show your body language, facial expression, or smart lines, the first thing that is going to be checked is your profile. With so many choices available, women who find your profile creepy will immediately discard you without second thought.

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If your aim is to meet and date women, here are some things that you should consider when you creating your profile in an online dating service or regular social network site:

1. Your Profile Pictures
The first rule here is NEVER use any webcam and have your picture smile in front of your PC to create your profile picture; it’ll scream “creepy!!” immediately. Your profile picture should convey your value and how people value you.

It should be either a) you are taking picture with something cool or b) you are doing fun activities. For example:

- You are taking photo in front of Eifel tower, beach with sunset behind you, or the mountain with sunrise behind you.

- You are taking picture with a beautiful woman and her body language shows that she’s close enough with you. You can ask one of your female friends for help with this.

- A picture of you surfing, playing basketball, playing guitar, clubbing, hanging out with your friends (make sure there are girls within your friends in the photo).

If you are serious about joining online dating for men, be careful with photos that you uploaded. Having exotic or beautiful place behind you shows that you love travelling, adventurous, and interesting.  Having gorgeous woman beside you shows that you are “pre-selected” and suddenly you looked a lot more attractive. And by show various solo and group activities, you convey that you have good social skills and hobbies. All of that are great, but be sure that the pictures display the REAL you.

2. Interest Box
While revealing your information is needed so you don’t seem creepy and trying to hide your creepy hobbies, mix in mystery is a great to make your profile more attractive. You can write something like “my most passionate hobby involves mixing fancy sports cars and… something else. I’m not telling you at this point!”

The rule is “value first” (sports cars, travelling around the world, learning various languages, etc), then convey that you have another passion on something exotic and you aren’t telling what it is. This is very appealing and women will curious about your “other” passion.

Unlike in the offline world, you have thousands of competitors in the world of online dating for men, thus it is necessary to be a little “tricky” to win the women. That being said, it is also important not to lie; don’t write “me and my girlfriend” if you taking photos with your hot female friend and don’t lie about your passions.

If you start with lies, she’ll has high expectation and may be disappointed when she meet you, so don’t write “into sports cars” if you don’t, but if you know many things and really interested in sports car even though you don’t have one, it is okay to write “into sports car”. Tell half the truth, but do not lie. For more advanced method to meet and date women online, I recommend that you check The Online Game by Derek Lamont.